Don’t Let a Boy Keep You From a Man

On a recent hiking trip through the Tennessee Mountains my husband and I came upon a waterfall that completely washed out our path. It was 40 degrees outside and we were 6 miles in, nearing the end of our hike.

The water was only ankle deep. We could have trudged through it, but my husband’s first thought was to build a path of stepping stones, ensuring I’d stay dry and get safely to the other side.

 I got emotional standing there watching him at work. It wasn’t about how tired and cold we were or how close we were to the cabin or even how much easier and quicker it would be to just walk through the running water. The essence of him in those moments was totally focused on me and my wellbeing.

In the past I’ve given my heart to guys that weren’t willing to fully give me theirs. I know how draining it is to invest and give so much of yourself to someone who will never even take the time to acknowledge you, consider you or attend to you.

When you give your heart to someone, make sure he pours everything into you. EVERYTHING. The soul of who you are is too rare and too valuable to be investing in questionable situations with dubious people.

There is a distinct difference between a boy that wants you, and a man that will do anything to keep you. A man will put in the effort. He will honor you, build you up, grow with you, empower you, and pursue you daily in everything he does. His actions will let the world know you are the one for him and it doesn’t get any sexier than that.

Know your values and your worth, and keep them close. The minute you negotiate the two of them you are settling for less. You are telling, not just yourself, but the universe that you don’t deserve any better.

When it comes to choosing a man, your cup must runneth over each and every time you look at him!

My husband today puts only God before me knowing that’s where he gets his strength.

He unexpectedly sweeps me off my feet for breathtaking kisses.

He reaches out his hand to ensure I’m safe whenever I am stepping down.

He makes me breakfast on the weekends and brings me tea before bed.

On my worst day, he makes me feel as if I am God’s greatest creation.

And every day I take the time to let him know how honored and eternally grateful I am.

Know your worth, Ladies, and don’t negotiate. 

❤️ Kerri